Text Message Dating

July 5th, 2011
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Text Message Dating for Love:

A great way to spice up a relationship in this new technology savvy world is through romantic and sometimes even seductive text messages. Text messages are an easy and discrete way to let your significant other know you are thinking about them during your time apart.

Sending a message letting your lover know a simple reason you love them or why you can’t wait to get home tonight could spark romantic interest that will have them thinking about you for the rest of the day. If you are a little more adventurous, send a sexy message discretely mentioning how much fun you had last night, or how sexy he looked this morning. If your partner is more of a romantic take the time to find some love poetry and pick out a quote that is especially meaningful for the both of you. This could be as simple as looking online and copy and pasting into your phone. At the beginning of relationships little messages like this can keep the relationship alive as well as spice up relationships that have begun to flat line.

When it comes to texting you should also be careful, work phones can be easily read by co-workers or friends.

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Get To The Next Level

January 29th, 2011
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So you’ve found a pretty special girl that you think you are into.  You’ve taken the time and the guts to approach her, get her digits, and ask her out on a date.  Your first date was really fun and lighthearted.  There wasn’t anything too romantic or any super deep conversation to steer her away.  But, you feel like at the end of the night she wasn’t really sure if you were actually into her or just taking her on a “friend” date.  You’ve asked her out again but you aren’t sure what you need to do to take it to that next level and let her know you are really interested.  Here are some simple tips and ideas you can use to help progress your relationship and see where it might go.

The first tip that you want to adhere to when going into this second date is that she obviously is ok with going out with you again.  Gain confidence from this and start to up your game.  Rather than keeping your hands to yourself all night, try branching out and touching the small of her back or even holding her hand!  If you are dating during the winter time then you could take her ice skating in order to hold hands as you go around the rink without feeling like you are committing her to something she doesn’t want to do.  You might also want to make sure that you compliment her so that she knows you think she is sexy.

The next tip is to plan a date that is a little bit more romantic.  While it is a great idea to start with a few “fun” dates to get the ball rolling, you need to know when to move onto the more intimate dates to see if there really is that romantic spark between the two of you.  Try taking a walk down a quiet street or finding a lowly lit restaurant for dinner is  great way to set the mood and the tone of the relationship.  This will let her know that she is on your mind and that you are planning things around her.

The last thing to remember is to be bold and take some risks.  If things are going really well at the end of the second date then plan on kissing her!  Otherwise she might scratch her head at the end of the date confused as to whether or not you are really into her.  Take the opportunities when they come along.

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Being More Assertive

January 29th, 2011
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All to often, men are faced with a situation where they can either approach a girl or they can just be wallflowers.  The ones that actually approach the girls usually have been rejected many times but know that if they don’t try, nothing will ever happen.  These are the same guys that are always with the hot girls and you wonder how a babe like her ended up with a goober like him.  So for those of you that have a hard time getting out of your comfort zones and approaching girls, or struggle with knowing how to act on a first date with a girl that has some potential, here are some tips to help you gain your confidence and play your cards right.

The first thing that you will want to watch out for when dating or approaching someone that you’ve just met is to not make her confused when you are done talking to her.  Girls enjoy a little bit of mystery, but they don’t want to be completely confused.  For instance, if you ask a girl on a date and by the end of the date she is wondering if that was actually a date, then you’ve messed up somewhere.  You need to do things on the date that let her know that you are into her.  Simple hand gestures and touching of the lower back or the back of the arm can be good signs that you are comfortable around her and are ok with being a little bit intimate.  Another thing that you should do is to make sure that you can carry on good conversation over the phone.  If you are struggling to come up with things to say then maybe you are not coming on strong enough.

The next tip that you want to do is make sure that you don’t miss out on golden opportunities because you have no spontaneity.  For instance, if at the end of the date the girl asks you to come upstairs for some hot cocoa and you immediately respond with a story about how you hate hot cocoa ever since the “accident” then you just shot yourself in the foot.  Or, the excuse that you have to get up early for school or for a meeting should only be used when you are trying to dodge out of a second date with some girl that is already thinking about the ring that she wants you to buy.  Just make sure that you take advantage of little opportunities like this.

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