So you’ve found a pretty special girl that you think you are into. You’ve taken the time and the guts to approach her, get her digits, and ask her out on a date. Your first date was really fun and lighthearted. There wasn’t anything too romantic or any super deep conversation to steer her away. But, you feel like at the end of the night she wasn’t really sure if you were actually into her or just taking her on a “friend” date. You’ve asked her out again but you aren’t sure what you need to do to take it to that next level and let her know you are really interested. Here are some simple tips and ideas you can use to help progress your relationship and see where it might go.
The first tip that you want to adhere to when going into this second date is that she obviously is ok with going out with you again. Gain confidence from this and start to up your game. Rather than keeping your hands to yourself all night, try branching out and touching the small of her back or even holding her hand! If you are dating during the winter time then you could take her ice skating in order to hold hands as you go around the rink without feeling like you are committing her to something she doesn’t want to do. You might also want to make sure that you compliment her so that she knows you think she is sexy.
The next tip is to plan a date that is a little bit more romantic. While it is a great idea to start with a few “fun” dates to get the ball rolling, you need to know when to move onto the more intimate dates to see if there really is that romantic spark between the two of you. Try taking a walk down a quiet street or finding a lowly lit restaurant for dinner is great way to set the mood and the tone of the relationship. This will let her know that she is on your mind and that you are planning things around her.
The last thing to remember is to be bold and take some risks. If things are going really well at the end of the second date then plan on kissing her! Otherwise she might scratch her head at the end of the date confused as to whether or not you are really into her. Take the opportunities when they come along.